Comments from 春香公子: I would not disagree with Chee's comments about women should have job skills and be independently wealthy even though I don't believe there are conflicts between being treasured/loved and being competent. After all, Chee has very good sense of humon. I just enjoy reading her writing!
憶蓉:謝謝妳的謬讚! 老妹我年華十八時就怎麼也攀不上 “顏如玉” 的邊兒, 如今那就更別提了! 如果硬扯, 大概可算是 “顏如玉” 的老娘親! 見妳連寫兩篇, 謬讚雖不屬實, 想我跟妳鬥鬥嘴倒是真的?! 所以, 咱家也就老老實實的自投羅網來囉~“誰憐越女顏如玉” - 人生最怕 “憐” 字! 跟 “憐” 一沾上邊兒, 可就完蛋大吉! “憐” 是 “可憐”, “憐惜”, “愛憐”… 都與 “不平等”, “不行”, “不能”… 有關, 都需要別人生出同情心, 愛心, 惜意… 來支撐, 才能達到 “憐”. 要旁人時時生此 “憐心”, 這是多麼困難的要求! 人生如果只靠旁人 “憐心惜意”, 我敢斷言, 此人一生, 必然悽苦.“貧賤江頭自浣沙”- 江頭浣沙, 處於天地之間, 享受好山好水, 又能自食其力, 不卑不亢, 這種人生不是貧賤. 我認為這總比王維描寫有錢的 “洛陽女兒” 強得太多! “洛陽女兒”成天無事可做, 念茲在茲的是要如何維持美麗容顏, 取寵於丈夫, “妝成只是薰香坐” 每日精心妝扮, 然後乖乖的薰著香坐著. 如果, 這連續劇再往下演, 歲月無情, 年華老去, 這“洛陽女兒”的老運可就不好了! 二奶, 三奶…永遠可以是年輕貌美的奇妙女子! 到那時, “憐愛” 的對象絕對不是這老去的 “洛陽女兒”! 所以, 結論是: 女人當自強! 越老越該自立自強!
January 9, 2009 6:01 PM
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